Rebuilding Me
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How To: 24-Hour Recovery Plan for Addiction, Trauma & Illness
The 24-hour plan is a fundamental principle in addiction recovery, trauma healing, and managing chronic illness. It emphasizes focusing on one day at a time rather than becoming overwhelmed by long-term concerns. This approach is commonly used in 12-step programs like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and is successfully applied to trauma recovery and chronic illness management. How to Use the 24-Hour Plan in Recovery The key idea is to focus on today; not yesterday or tomorrow. If a situation escalates, a 24-hour plan can be broken down into an hourly schedule. Here’s how you can apply it in different areas: Addiction Recovery Stay away from any addictive substance ‘just for today‘.…
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Cold Water Shower : Energize your Mind, Body, and Immunity
Embracing the Cold Stepping into that cold shower initiates a daily journey toward resilience. The first moments of icy water serve as a reminder of inner strength. With each deliberate breath, you welcome the invigorating challenge, understanding that you’re nurturing both your mental and physical health. The shock of the cold water becomes a source of vitality that energizes you throughout the day. Self-Mastery This practice equips you with a mastery over your mind and body. By intentionally subjecting yourself to discomfort, you cultivate a mental fortitude crucial in handling highly stressful situations. Through enduring the chill, you develop a resilience that allows you to approach life’s challenges composed and…
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Cold Water Immersion Therapy: Proven Benefits
Wild or Open Cold-Water Swimming is the practice of swimming in natural bodies of water like lakes, rivers, or the ocean offers a range of potential benefits for both body and mind. While individual experiences vary, many people find it positively impacts their overall well-being. I’m lucky enough to live on the south coast of England, just five minutes from the sea, which means I can enjoy the benefits of open cold-water swimming right on my doorstep. The sea can be unpredictable, so safety is always my top priority. Before heading in, I carefully check the tide times and weather conditions. Swimming with others is always safer than going alone.…
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Powerful Benefits of Embracing Uncomfortable Challenges and Discipline
Comfort Won’t Change You. Discipline Will. Engaging in small, sometimes uncomfortable challenges and disciplines can be surprisingly beneficial to individuals recovering from addiction, trauma, or chronic illness. These small efforts or “micro-challenges” might include cold showers, short exercise routines, meditation sessions, or daily journaling commitments, among many other possibilities. While they might seem mundane or even unpleasant on the surface; they can play a powerful role in the healing process. Below are some of the key benefits: Building Self-Efficacy and Confidence Mastery in Small Steps: Successfully completing manageable challenges helps reinforce a sense of control over one’s actions and emotions. This fosters what psychologists call “self-efficacy” the belief that you…
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What If and Yes But Syndrome
The “What If & Yes But” syndrome are self-sabotaging your mindset. They re closely related patterns of thought that can block and undermine recovery: known as “mental reservation and/ or “escape clause.” Lately, I’ve been thinking back to a conversation I had with a counsellor a few years ago, one that still stirs up a mix of shame and embarrassment. Counsellor: “You could try attending a support group to help with your recovery.”Me struggling with addiction: “Yeah, but what if I don’t connect with anyone there?” Counsellor: “You could talk to a therapist it might help you understand your triggers.”Me: “Yes but I’ve done therapy before and it didn’t work.”…
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Meditation: Improve Quality of Life in Recovery
Meditation offers a wide range of benefits, including reduced stress, improved focus, emotional balance, better sleep, and heightened self-awareness. It promotes relaxation, inner peace, and overall well-being. Finding the right meditation practice is a deeply personal journey; one that requires exploration, self-reflection, and a willingness to experiment. With countless ways to meditate, you can choose what resonates most with yourself, whether it’s seated meditation, breathwork, or mindful movement. (Yoga, Tai Chi & Walking) For individuals dealing with addiction, trauma, or chronic illness, meditation can be especially powerful. By helping to regulate the nervous system, reduce stress, and support emotional healing, it becomes a valuable tool for resilience and recovery. One of…
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“Stone in My Shoe” Moment : Sparked a Powerful Life Journey
A Journey Toward a Healthy Recovery Whether I’m just walking to the local shop or out on a serious trek, the moment I feel a stone in my shoe, I know it’s time to stop. It only makes sense if I ignore it and keep going, I’m just asking for trouble. One tiny stone can turn into bruises, blisters, or even bleeding and that can lead to infection. I’ve learned to pause, take a breath, and deal with the problem right then and there. It might seem small, but my feet are my foundation, my allies. Even the best, most expensive shoes in the world mean nothing if there’s something…
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The Butterfly Effect : Tiny Changes Lead to Big Results
Discover how the Butterfly Effect applies to healing. Learn how tiny daily changes can create powerful transformations in your health, mindset, and life. Looking back on my journey through addiction, trauma, and chronic illness, I can see now that it wasn’t the big moments that saved me. It was the small ones. The ones no one saw. The ones that almost didn’t happen. There’s this idea from chaos theory, the butterfly effect, that a butterfly flapping its wings in one part of the world can set off a chain reaction leading to a storm somewhere far away. I used to think my life was all storm. But now I see…
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Rebuilding Me : Life in Recovery is Powerful and Inspiring.
Practical and Inspiring Insights of a Life in Recovery On September 28th, 2024, at the age of 76 and with 43 years of sobriety, I took on a new challenge: skydiving from 15,000 feet. That leap wasn’t just a personal triumph; it was a way to give back, supporting a cancer charity while proving that life in recovery is not only possible but extraordinary. Recovery has given me the strength to live fully, take on challenges, and inspire others. It’s in Recovery I realize that it’s not about just having a life; it’s about truly being alive. Plummeting down from 15,000 ft. @ 125 mph for one minute is a…
